Wednesday, October 21, 2009

SOME REASONS WHY GUYS LEAVE GIRLS

1.The "Pleasure Principle"
Men, and women, generally want to FEEL GOOD intheir lives.
And they want to have the people around them be a source of pleasure and comfort and support.
Yourself included.
When you are constantly freaking out on a man for what it is about him that freaks you out, you quickly turn into one of the people that it DOESN'T FEEL GOOD to be around.
And this has a huge impact on whether or not he wants to invest more time, effort, and energy in you and your relationship.
Or if he will decide to give up on trying to fix what's going on with you so you can both feel good together.


2. Emotional Experience And The Future
For a man in a relationship, the ways a woman acts in the "little" situations become indicators of how she's going to respond when things really are tough and in the future.
So if a woman is consistently negative and emotional... and can't get herself together even when a man tries to explain things and comfort her... then a man isn't going to think that things could be any better in the future together.

Friday, October 16, 2009

I WILL BE BACK SOON WITH .....