Truth About Men In Relationships

#1 Truth About Men In Relationships


I’m going to let you in on a very important truth about men and why they so often stop being loving present partners in relationships…
If you don’t know what a man is looking for in a relationship, and what makes him feel great about staying with you… it’s likely that you’re unintentionally making the man you’re with feel like a FAILURE in your relationship.
And not just once in a while- you’re doing this in lots of small ways day in and day out that you haven’t even been conscious of before now.
This is a HUGE MISTAKE to make with a man, and it’s also this all important truth about men-
When a man feels like a failure, he will simply stop giving to your relationship.Stop and think about this for a second.Think about how this has been true for you with men in your past relationships.
Let me explain how big of a deal it is for a man to feel like a failure…

When a man feels attracted to a woman and chooses her as the one woman he wants…
part of what keeps drawing him closer to her is how easy it feels to be with her and make her happy.
This is the “honeymoon” stage of a relationship.
But when relationship issues come up, “buttons” are pushed, and arguments start…
most men are at a loss.
They don’t know how to handle it. In fact, often times they don’t even know what’s going on or where all this intense emotional stuff is coming from.
They just know that they don’t like it.What women often say to men at these times is received not as an effort to do good for the relationship, but as a CRITICISM.
And criticism quickly makes a man feel like a failure.
A failure at making his woman happy the way he used to so easily. And a failure at being simply WHO HE IS as a man.
When this kind of thing starts, a man feels like he can’t “win” with you.And once a guy starts to feel this way, you can’t “fix it.” You can only know exactly what this is and what it looks like, and stop doing it…Or… like lots of other women mistakenly do…
You can continue to push and poke and question him more, which only makes him feel like more of a failure in your eyes and pull farther away.When this kind of thing starts happening for you with your man… something changes for him in the relationship. And as much as you might not want it to be true… he is actually the one who feels confused about why your relationship isn’t working and is so unnecessarily hard.
And this makes him question whether or not he should even BE in a relationship with you.
Don’t let this cycle spiral out of control anymore and drag you and your relationships with men down, when it doesn’t have to be this way.


#2 Truth About Men In Relationships

I’ll tell you something true about a good man-
In this day in age, a good man doesn’t need a long-term relationship.
A good man might WANT one, if the right woman is in his life.But he doesn’t NEED one.
The only relationship a man “needs” is the kind that makes him feel like a stronger, better, wiser and more important man.

A man wants and needs to feel like a HERO in your relationship if he’s going to stay for the long haul.

Unfortunately, lots of men aren’t feeling this way in relationships and it’s causing them to act out or withdraw from their relationship in frustration.If a man doesn’t feel like a hero with you, and instead feels like a constant or semi-consistent FAILURE, then from experience I can tell you…It won’t last.And it only takes a few moments to shock a man into “failure mode” where he’ll start questioning everything and stop trying with you.
Don’t let this happen if you love each other.